Its memory of the chat balloons — so the heads share it.
Each attention head keeps its own running notes on every word so far — its Keys and Values. Stack enough heads, layers and words and that pile, reread on every step, becomes the real bottleneck. The fix is almost cheeky: most heads don't need their own copy. Like many straws in a few shared jars: each head still sips its own way, but from a memory they hold in common.